Society is Building a soft generation

It’s time to fight back…

The World’s #1 Expert in Fatherhood Leadership.  

His mission is to equip men to become the trusted and revered leader within their homes.  Today, a staggering 52% of young american’s age 18-29 are living at home with their parents.  Thomas believes a powerful connection with the father is the key for young people to make a successful launch into adulthood and the game of life.  

Thomas is a Husband, Father of Three, combat athlete, and a former Division 1 Strength Coach. After becoming a father at 18 he’s overcome the adversity of being pushed out of his son’s life and has since rebuilt a thriving blended family. 

Thomas’ principles of how to “Stop Parenting” and “Start Leading” have helped hundreds of men create a life-changing shift in their relationship with their kids and their wives.  

This is why he’s regarded as one of the world’s most in-demand speakers on fatherhood and leadership.

Thomas Pfanner is

The Leadership DaD

Corporate Leadership

Leading without Limits

Building an independent and motivated team

Most leaders believe power struggles are caused by strong personalities and a lack of humility. But actually, there is a hidden cycle of rebellion that is slowly brewing under the surface.  Elite leaders know how to avoid this cycle and keep their team hungry for growth.

In this session you will learn: 

  • Why most teams secretly resent leadership 

  • How to build teams you don’t have to motivate

  • Become a leader who makes a lifelong impact on each team member


Thomas will uncover the secrets of how to build an independent and motivated team; a team that operates from desire and not fear.    

The Hidden Anchors

The release that will transform your family legacy…

Most Dads believe kids turn into teenagers, pull away from our leadership and are destined for unnecessary struggle. But actually, we are all capable of earning authentic respect from our teenagers. 

First, we must be willing to develop the skill of leadership. In this session you will learn: 

  • 5 Anchors that Hold Back Men’s Leadership

  • How to guide your teenager in developing the skill of independence

  • How leadership can ignite a stronger connection with kids and wives. 

In this presentation, we’ll take a close look at the issues we face as men. Thomas will uncover how to make it easy for our wives to lean into our leadership.

Men’s Leadership

Reversing Rebellion:

Stop Parenting. Start Leading.

THe simple roadmap to earn authentic respect.

Most parents believe they must choose between being a friend and holding high expectations for their teenager.  The cold hard truth is this, it requires a range of leadership few are willing to develop.

In this session you will learn: 

  • Understand the hidden cycle of rebellion

  • How to ignite a powerful bond with your teen while holding high expectations

  • The simple shift that lets kids lean into our leadership 


In this presentation, you will learn our secret formula to reverse teenage rebellion so you can reignite a powerful bond with your child while also seeing them reach great heights.